Month: September 2013

Three Tips to Help You Find Love

By Lianne Avila / September 23, 2013 /

My single clients often ask me, ‘will I ever find the one?’ I tell them to focus on the process rather than the goal. What this means is, rather than focusing on how much you hate being single or making it a goal to find a life partner. Sit back and enjoy the process. Take…

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Is it time to DEFOG?

By Lianne Avila / September 16, 2013 /

“And this too shall pass.” As most of you know I counsel a lot of couples, and I absolutely love it. But, I also counsel individuals, as well. People, often, come to see me after a break-up. They may be feeling confused or lonely. They know they want to be in a relationship, but wonder…

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Single and Over 40

By Lianne Avila / September 9, 2013 /

“Single” is an opportunity to live life on your own terms and not apologize.” Mandy Hale SO WHAT. I am not here to tell you anything stupid, like, “it must be lonely or you just don’t get out enough.” If you are over the age of 40 and single I am sure you have heard…

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