Month: October 2015

Can The Four Horsemen Affect Workplace Relationships, Too?

By Lianne Avila / October 26, 2015 /

The answer is yes. Let’s review what The Four Horsemen are: Criticism, Defensiveness, Contempt and Stonewalling. They are the four biggest predictors of divorce. This is based from The Gottmans research. They have done over four decades of research in working with couples. They have found that there is overlap into the workplace. They have…

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Pancakes and Relationships

By Lianne Avila / October 19, 2015 /

What’s more important in life than good food, good friends and most importantly a good relationship. I think back to the first time I made pancakes. I think I was in the sixth grade and they came out runny. I put in too much milk but over time they came out better and now I…

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Men and Relationships

By Lianne Avila / October 5, 2015 /

Men aren’t like women, they don’t talk about their needs the way we do. Whether it’s social conditioning or they are just wired differently, doesn’t matter. We are all human beings and we all have the desire to connect with someone in a relationship. Whether you are a man or woman, reading this article will…

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