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7 Ways To Build Trust In Your Relationship To Increase Friendship & Intimacy

By Lianne Avila | July 13, 2020

QS Bathroom Supplies recently studied trust in a relationship. The results were amazing. Couples had more off-limits items and banned chores in the home, than one would think. The study was called, Don’t Touch My Stuff. The number one item that couples had off-limits were their smartphone. The number one reason the smartphone was off-limits, was because they didn’t want their partner using it. Items two and three, were computers and cash. They found most of the couples studied felt this way at the beginning. But, if they didn’t loosen up it was because their partner lost it or damaged...

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Super Self-Care Tips That Will Help You Feel Better

By Lianne Avila | June 29, 2020

A super self-care plan is a must. Especially, during times of stress and uncertainty. Right now, it’s easy to put everyone else first. By doing this you are putting your emotional and physical health at risk. This doesn’t mean you are selfish. It’s important that you take care of yourself. Your friends and family will thank you for it. You will feel better and be happier. Super Self-Care Is For You A super self-care plan will also help you feel more like yourself. You will be more alert and aware. This is very important during this time. I find a...

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7 Ways Women Can Achieve Ultimate Wellness

By Lianne Avila | June 15, 2020

An ultimate wellness plan will help reduce the stress in your life. It’s important to make an investment in yourself. Studies have found you will live longer. Your mind and body give you warning signs. But, when you are stressed out you tend to ignore them. When you do this you are ignoring the ultimate wellness inside you. Ultimate wellness starts from within. You shouldn’t feel like you have to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. And, you shouldn’t be around people that make you feel that way. You need to start to take responsibility for your...

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Why Can’t I Be Happy? 7 Things That Will Make You Happier

By Lianne Avila | June 1, 2020

You know when you feel happy and you know when you don’t. Are you asking yourself, ‘Why can’t I be happy?’ If that is the case, you aren’t alone. Many people rely on external validation to make them feel happy. This means they rely on their work, relationships, and income to feel happy. As you know, all of those things can change. You shouldn’t rely on others to make you feel happy. Why can’t I be happy? I have seen a lot of people in my practice. And, I have heard this question a lot. Happiness comes from within. You...

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15 Ultimate Self-Care Tips To Feed Your Body & Soul Today

By Lianne Avila | May 18, 2020

You hear a lot about self-care these days. It’s good for your mental health. But, many people in our society still aren’t practicing self-care. Ultimate self-care doesn’t mean the same thing to everyone. Self-care is defined as a way of preventing stress. But, not everyone would agree with this. Ultimate self-care is for you. What is your environment like? Do you feel that contributes to your stress? I want to make sure you understand that self-care cannot change the people in your life, or the environment that you live in. The ultimate self-care plan can help you set the necessary...

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I Think My Husband Is Depressed. What Should I do?

By Lianne Avila | May 4, 2020

When someone you love suffers from depression, you can feel confused. You may not know what to do, and that is alright. You may even feel angry, or like you just want to leave. My husband is depressed, and I just don’t know what to do. If your partner is depressed, then it will effect you. I’m hear to tell you the feelings you are having are normal. The depressed partner may feel everything is normal, but you don’t. You may feel like your feelings aren’t validated by your partner. You may also feel like you have done something wrong,...

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10 Benefits of Telehealth Therapy During The Coronavirus

By Lianne Avila | April 27, 2020

Having to shelter in place during the Coronavirus has caused a lot of stress and anxiety, for everyone. It’s stressful living in these uncertain times. It’s important to know that Telehealth is an option. There are emotional benefits of Telehealth therapy during the Coronavirus. You may feel alone and stuck at home. If that’s the case, then it’s time to try Telehealth therapy. You will be able to stay safe inside your home, and not be exposed to the Coronavirus. Since the shelter in place order went in to effect, I have been immersed in Telehealth therapy. I’m glad that...

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10 Ways To Ruin A Perfectly Good Relationship

By Lianne Avila | April 13, 2020

It’s easy to get caught up in your thoughts. What your mind says is not always true. This is known as a cognitive distortion. I see couples do this all the time. They are stuck in an old thought pattern, and it is destroying a perfectly good relationship. Don’t ruin a perfectly good relationship, with a toxic thought pattern. Toxic thought patterns will leave you with feeling stuck. You will feel like you have no way out. That is not true. Learn to look at your options and make choices that are good for you, and the relationship. Here are...

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10 Tips (That Are Sure) To Help You Fall In Love With Your Life

By Lianne Avila | April 6, 2020

Have you ever felt your life is going in a downward spiral? If you answered yes, then you are like many folks out there. We have all felt that way at one time or another. Fall in love with your life. Your child won’t stop whining, you didn’t get that promotion you had hoped for, or your cat barfed again. When you feel this way, you don’t want to get caught up in catastrophic thinking. This is also known as negative thinking. When you think about it, life is a process and we are all a work in progress. If...

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Self-care is good for you and your family.

4 Essential Ways Busy Parents Can Practice Self-Care

By Lianne Avila | March 30, 2020

When you have a family and a career, it doesn’t leave much time for yourself. Even if you love your family and career, you may be feeling stressed out. You are busy taking care of everyone else. This doesn’t leave much time for yourself. Self-care will help you feel better about yourself. The first thing to remember, is to go easy on yourself. You can’t do it all, and you shouldn’t feel like you have to do it all. If you are around people that make you feel that way, then you should rethink who you spend your time with....

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