Dating 101

I'm here to tell you there is hope, you can be single and happy.

11 Tips For Being Single And Happy

By Lianne Avila | June 5, 2018

When you are single, it may feel like everyone is married or in a relationship. You always seem to notice what you don’t have. And, of course, not only is everyone in a relationship but they seem to be very happy and in a relationship. I’m here to tell you there is hope, you can be single and happy. This can leave you feeling lonely. You may feel you are the only one that feels this way. But, the truth of the matter is that nearly half of the population is single. What this means, is that you aren’t alone....

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Dating isn't always easy. Learn how you can tell if he's the one, that you can give your heart to.

How Do You Know, If He’s The One That Really Loves You?

By Lianne Avila | May 14, 2018

You’ve been hurt in the past. This makes it hard to trust yourself. You really like this guy. You can feel it in your gut. But, what if he’s the one? Or, just another guy that hurts you? It’s easy to feel this way when you’ve been hurt in the past. It’s actually a good thing that you are questioning the relationship. This means you take it seriously. Try not to overthink it, that never ends good. The first thing you need to do when you are dating someone is to ask yourself, ‘what are you looking for in a...

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This is one of the biggest decisions that you will ever make. Learn how to know if he's the one.

6 Things That Men Do When They’re Head Over Heels In Love With You

By Lianne Avila | April 24, 2018

He loves me, he loves me not. This is one of the most important decisions that you will ever make in your life. How will you know if he’s the one? It’s not as easy as picking petals off a flower, like you did when you were a child. It’s actually a good thing that you are questioning the relationship. How do your friends and family feel about him? Would you bring him around your friends and family? I’m sure you know where I’m going with this. But, there is still much more to this. Is this the guy you...

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You can learn to trust yourself, again.

How To Know If Your Man Takes You Seriously

By Lianne Avila | February 19, 2018

I hear this a lot. You really like this guy, but you can’t help but wonder how seriously he takes you. You think about him all the time. You just can’t get him off your mind. You’ve been hurt in the past, so it’s hard to trust your instincts. That is a natural way to feel after a break up. But, eventually you need to pick up the pieces and move forward. How long have you been seeing him? If it’s been a while, why would he have stuck around if he didn’t take you seriously? Have you thought about...

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Take the time to do the things that you want to do while you are single.

6 Tips For Being Single And Happy

By Lianne Avila | February 6, 2018

How many married people have you heard say, ‘I wish I would of taken advantage of my single years.’ Why is it, you just let them slip away? It’s so easy to think of what you don’t have. I think human beings are prone to think this way. It’s true, when you are single you really do have more time. Now, I’m not saying that you don’t work hard. But, you also have more flexibility over your schedule. There is a lot of advice out there for singles. For example, how to snatch the perfect guy, where to meet the...

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Learn some great questions for a first date, that will lead to a great conversation.

21 Great Questions For A First Date

By Lianne Avila | November 13, 2017

Dating can be tricky. What should you wear? Where should you meet? Who should pay? Should you offer to pay? What should you eat? And, the list goes on. How many questions for a first date can you have? Try not to worry too much on a first date. Remember, this doesn’t have to be the person that you marry. Look at the first date as an interview. You are getting to know someone new. Try to have fun and not be too serious. There are definitely a few rules to follow. Don’t talk on your cell phone. Don’t do...

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Take time to get to know yourself when you are single.

5 Tips For Taking Care Of Yourself When You Are Single

By Lianne Avila | October 30, 2017

Being single doesn’t have to be a death sentence. When you are single it’s easy to forget that nearly half of the population is single. This means you are not alone on this. This is a great time to explore and do things that you couldn’t do, if you were married. The first thing you want to do, is take a look at your mindset. What do you say to yourself? Are you telling yourself things like, there is nothing worse than being single, or I will never meet the right person. One that I hear a lot is, all...

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You are ready to change your status to, “in a relationship.”

6 Ways To Tell He’s The One (And 6 Ways To Tell He’s Not)

By Lianne Avila | October 26, 2017

You’ve been dating this guy for a while. Things are starting to get serious. You don’t want to see anyone else. But, you just aren’t sure if he’s the one. There are always pros and cons in a relationship. But, the right relationship can be amazing. If you want to get serious, then you need to know what you want. If you don’t, you will end up getting hurt. This is a time when you want to listen to your gut. It’s alright to listen to your friends and family. But, in the long run this is the guy you...

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10 Signs He’s NOT The One To Marry, No Matter How Much You Love Him

By Lianne Avila | August 7, 2017

Initially, you felt like this guy was the one. You’ve been together for a while. He has met your friends and family. But, lately you have had mixed feelings about him. You love him, but it just feels different. You are beginning to wonder, if he is the one? So, why have you stayed with him, when you’ve had this feeling. Maybe, it took you a long time to meet him. He comes around a lot. He creates a sense of safety for you. We all want to be in a committed relationship. We want to feel loved, and be...

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What To Do When He Says You’re The One, But You’re Not Sure

By Lianne Avila | August 6, 2017

I know this is a hard one for you. You’ve been seeing this guy for a while, and he has been hinting that he is ready to take it to the next level. But, you just aren’t sure if he is the one for you. It’s alright to question your relationship. Maybe, it’s not the right time or you just aren’t feeling that emotional connection. You used to look forward to his phone calls at the end of the day, but now they just exhaust you. It used to be exciting to hear about every last detail of his life,...

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