Relationship Challenges

Your relationship will change. Learn how you can get through it.

Why Do Relationships Change?

By Lianne Avila | May 26, 2019

Your relationship will change over time. There are many different reasons as to why your relationship will change. If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, then you know that the honeymoon phase will end. The good news is, this is when you will begin to grow. Everyone has shortcomings. It’s important to build a culture of understanding in your relationship. This will help build a long lasting relationship. Why do relationships change? There isn’t a simple answer. As couples get closer to one another, their negative traits begin to stand out. Your relationship feels routine and is less...

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Learn how relationships problems cause anxiety, and what you can do about it.

Can Relationship Problems Cause Anxiety?

By Lianne Avila | March 31, 2019

More and more you are hearing about anxiety. What this means is that you are stressed out. When you are stressed out and you don’t have a coping mechanism, it will turn into anxiety. So, can relationship problems cause anxiety? The answer is yes. Learn what you can do about it before it’s too late. Studies show that couples wait a minimum of seven years before they go to therapy for their relationship problems. What does this mean? You may already have an anxiety disorder. The truth of the matter is, that if you wait too long you might not...

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Learn how you can solve relationship problems without fighting. Start with understanding.

How To Discuss Relationship Problems Without Fighting

By Lianne Avila | January 17, 2019

Even the best of relationships have problems. What’s different is that couples learn how to repair after an argument. This means that you need to talk about it. I know this is not what everyone wants to hear. This is a great way to help build understanding in the relationship. “You must understand the problem before you can solve the problem.” Gottman Learn how to discuss relationship problems without fighting. The Gottman’s research found that 69% of problems in a relationship aren’t solvable. So, why don’t you try to stop solving your relationship problems? Sounds simple, right? If you are...

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Are you tired of having money and relationship problems. Here are five tips that can help with that.

The Uncomfortable Link Between Money And Relationship Problems

By Lianne Avila | November 6, 2018

Talking about money in a relationship, can be stressful. But, you really need to talk about this one. I know, no one likes to hear let’s talk about the budget. When you go into a relationship, you each come from a different family of origin. This means that you each have a different language. I have found that many couples have a different language (aka-belief system) about money. That is why money and relationship problems go together. After a while, you are going to have to talk about money. This can start when you are dating. This is not a...

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You can learn how to solve relationship problems without breaking up. There is hope.

How To Solve Relationship Problems Without Breaking Up

By Lianne Avila | September 18, 2018

Are you having problems in your relationship? If you answered yes, you aren’t alone. Even the best of couples, have relationship problems. It’s easy to feel stressed out these days. You have a family and a job. So, where does your relationship fit in? Many people go into a relationship, thinking it will make them happy and reduce stress. Many couples find out, this is not the case. You can learn how to solve relationship problems without breaking up. At first it is bliss. Your partner can’t do anything wrong. But, after a while things change. You begin to see...

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Learn why money causes problems in your relationship, and what these problems are really about.

6 Ways Money Causes Problems In Your Relationship

By Lianne Avila | August 14, 2018

You are told that money will make you happy. Maybe, you didn’t have much money growing up, or maybe you had everything. Whatever the case, you don’t want to let money define the relationship. Learn the truth about why money causes problems in your relationship. We live in a country that puts a high value on money. This can leave you feeling like you don’t have enough. You really can’t buy love. Money cannot replace the time you spend with your loved ones. It also can’t take back the past or predict the future. The truth of the matter, is...

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Are your relationship problems taking over? Learn what you can do.

Advice For Relationship Problems

By Lianne Avila | July 24, 2018

At the beginning of a relationship, when everything is new. You can’t imagine you would ever have any kind of a challenge in your relationship. You can’t see your partner’s flaws. The relationship makes you feel wonderful. But, eventually the honeymoon is over. You start to see your partner as a real human being. With flaws, like the rest of us. Relationship problems are part of every relationship. The Gottman’s research has found, that 69% of problems in a relationship are unsolvable. This means, learn to understand your partner and your problems in the relationship. Nothing is as black and...

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You aren't the same person you were when you got married. So, why do you expect your spouse to be? Learn how to fix a broken marriage before it's too late.

How To Fix A Broken Marriage Before It’s Too Late

By Lianne Avila | June 19, 2018

It’s the worst feeling in the world, when you realize your marriage is broken. You never thought this would happen. In the beginning, you felt it would last forever. Of course, you were mesmerized by the newness of the relationship. You did not see any of your partner’s flaws. At the beginning of your relationship you never thought you would have to worry about, how to fix a broken marriage. All marriages go through highs and lows. But, it feels much worse when it is broken. You wonder if it can ever be fixed? Your heart is breaking. You wonder...

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