Relationship Challenges

Learn what to do when you have relationship problems because of work.

What To Do When You Have Relationship Problems Because Of Work

By Lianne Avila | March 5, 2018

You are led to believe that when you make more money, you will be happier. So, you work your ass off. But, now you have relationship problems because of work. When you get a raise you are worried about the next raise. What this means, is that more money doesn’t mean you will be happy. You can also put your health at risk. When was the last time you had a good night’s sleep? Or, spent quality time with your family? If this continues, your relationship will start to suffer. You don’t want to let work drive a wedge in...

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Learn why Facebook causes relationship problems.

7 Reasons Why Facebook Causes Relationship Problems

By Lianne Avila | January 22, 2018

Let’s face it Facebook is one of the most popular social networking sites around. You can share almost anything you want, and at the same time learn a lot about your friends and family. You can also connect with old friends from the past. This can be a lot of fun. But, at the same time it can cause you to feel insecure. If you are in a relationship, and you start to see your friends and family photos of relationships. That probably shows them happy and in love all the time. You may start to feel insecure about your...

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Are Your Relationship Problems Due To Depression?

How To Deal With Relationship Problems Due To Depression

By Lianne Avila | December 4, 2017

I’m sure by now you’ve all heard about depression. You know how depression affects you when you are feeling depressed. But, do you know how depression affects others in your life? Unfortunately, this is something people don’t talk a lot about. Recent research has found that nearly a third of Americans have or will experience some type of depression. There is one death by suicide every 12.8 minutes. Suicide is the second leading cause of death for people between the ages of 15 – 44. If you haven’t experienced depression yourself, you may know someone or be close to someone...

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You can find the “we” in money.

How To Know If Financial Stress Is Affecting Your Relationship

By Lianne Avila | November 6, 2017

You are told that money will make you happy. Maybe, you didn’t have much money growing up, or maybe you had everything. Whatever the case, you need to define your relationship with money, and not let it control you. We live in a country that puts a high value on money. This can leave you feeling like you don’t have enough. You really can’t buy love. Money cannot replace the time you spend with your loved ones. It also can’t take back the past or predict the future. The truth of the matter, is you need money to survive in...

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Work on understanding your problems before trying to solve them.

The 5 Most Common Relationship Problems For Seniors

By Lianne Avila | October 16, 2017

Everyone has had relationship problems, at one time or another. A lot of the time, it’s just the same problem over and over. AKA, perpetual problems. It’s natural to want to solve your perpetual problems. But, this doesn’t always happen. Instead, try to understand the problem and see where your partner is coming from. Unfortunately, sometimes your perpetual problems can drive you apart. Or, they can keep you together. Whatever the case, they do exist. Aging is a natural part of life, we all have that in common. If you have been in a relationship for a while, your problems...

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Learn the signs of relationship problems, that will get worse if you don't do something now about them.

The 7 Signs Of Relationship Problems, That Must Be Fixed ASAP

By Lianne Avila | October 2, 2017

All relationships go through highs and lows. In the beginning, you just can’t get enough of one another. But, after a while things can grow stale. This doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship will end. But, it does mean that you will need to work much harder at it. Sometimes, the signs of relationship problems aren’t that obvious.  The thought of ending your marriage, is very scary. It can be overwhelming. You might try to not think about it, but that doesn’t work. Eventually, your problems in the relationship catch up. If that’s the case, then you must do something about...

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You don't have to feel empty and depleted at the end of the day.

5 Tips For Taking Care Of Yourself In A Relationship

By Lianne Avila | September 28, 2017

You know you need to take care of yourself. So, why aren’t you? Is it because there are so many distractions? You have work you need to do, or the kids just won’t sit still. It seems there is always a good reason to put yourself last. When you don’t take care of yourself, you will become resentful. This can lead to many problems: low self-esteem, anxiety or depression. You live in a fast paced world. You are told, ‘It’s never enough.’ This leaves you feeling empty and depleted. Not only are you hurting yourself, but you are hurting your...

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Sad woman dealing with relationship problems after a miscarriage.

4 Common Relationship Problems After A Miscarriage

By Lianne Avila | September 18, 2017

Having a miscarriage can greatly affect your relationship. I’ve found it can either tear you apart, or bring you closer. No one really knows what you are going through, unless they have experienced it themselves. Your partner may be the one person you feel the most safe with, when talking about this. No one really knows the reason a miscarriage happens. There can be many different reasons. What’s important is that you don’t blame yourself, and that you allow yourself to grieve. Let yourself feel all of the emotions that you have about the miscarriage. Don’t keep it in. This...

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What Is One Of The Hardest Words To Say (But The Best) Thing You Can Do In A Relationship?

By Lianne Avila | September 4, 2017

It’s a very simple word. But, yet so many people have a really hard time saying it. Why is this? Does it mean you have to admit you are wrong? I’m sure you know, the answer is yes. If you haven’t guessed already, it saying, “I’m Sorry.” And, it’s genuine. All relationships go through highs and lows. What’s important is you learn to repair, when you have made a mistake. It’s also important when your partner gives you a sincere apology, that you receive it. Even if you think you had a small part in the argument. It’s important to...

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What To Do If Your Husband Isn’t Attracted To You Anymore

By Lianne Avila | August 29, 2017

This is a big relationship challenge, but is actually more common than you think. A lot of women don’t like to talk about it. Maybe, you feel embarrassed or like there is something wrong with you. Don’t blame yourself. It takes two to make a relationship work. In the beginning, the sex is great. It’s new and exciting. You know he can’t wait to get his hands on you. But, over time things change. You have a house, children and a demanding job. When was the last time you had fun together? I’m talking about spending time together laughing. Fun...

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