Taking Care Of Yourself

The Guide To Ultimate Self-Care

By Lianne Avila | May 18, 2020

You hear a lot about self-care these days. It’s good for your mental health. But, many people in our society still aren’t practicing self-care. Ultimate self-care doesn’t mean the same thing to everyone. Self-care is defined as a way of preventing stress. But, not everyone would agree with this. Ultimate self-care is for you. What is your environment like? Do you feel that contributes to your stress? I want to make sure you understand that self-care cannot change the people in your life, or the environment that you live in. The ultimate self-care plan can help you set the necessary...

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10 Tips (That Are Sure) To Help You Fall In Love With Your Life

By Lianne Avila | April 6, 2020

Have you ever felt your life is going in a downward spiral? If you answered yes, then you are like many folks out there. We have all felt that way at one time or another. Fall in love with your life. Your child won’t stop whining, you didn’t get that promotion you had hoped for, or your cat barfed again. When you feel this way, you don’t want to get caught up in catastrophic thinking. This is also known as negative thinking. When you think about it, life is a process and we are all a work in progress. If...

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Feel better with a self-care plan.

Self-Care: 10 Simple Tips That Will Help You Feel Better

By Lianne Avila | March 24, 2020

At this point, everyone has heard of self-care. So, the question is are you practicing self-care? Unfortunately, more often than not the answer I hear is no. Self-care can be simple. When you think of self-care, you may think of getting a massage or a mani/pedi with your girlfriends. Those are both great ways to take care of yourself. But, self-care is something you practice daily and it’s taking care of your mind, body and soul. You may be thinking that you don’t have time for self-care. You are saying that you don’t have time for yourself. If that’s the...

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Learn what the benefits are of self-care. You will reduce stress and feel better.

Here Are 6 Reasons To Start Taking Care Of Yourself, Now

By Lianne Avila | February 4, 2020

It’s easy to put yourself last on the list. You have children, a husband and a job. This doesn’t leave much time for yourself. When you think of self-care it’s easy to think of getting a massage or a mani/pedi. Self-care is something you practice daily, and it’s taking care of your mind, body and spirit. Taking care of yourself, is a priority. When you don’t take care of yourself, you will feel burn out. This can also lead to feelings of resentment towards your family and friends. You can start with eating a healthy meal, going for a walk...

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Learn how to add self-care to your life. You will begin to feel better.

Self-Care – 1 Day At A Time

By Lianne Avila | January 12, 2020

Are you tired of feeling stressed out? If you answered yes, then you should take a look at your self-care plan. Do you put self-care on your calendar? If you answered no, then why not? People are more stressed out than ever these days. Stress is the number one killer. What can help decrease stress in your life is self-care. What is self-care? Having a self-care plan doesn’t mean you are selfish. It’s means you are being mindful about taking care of yourself. That you are prioritizing your own self-care. It’s easy to put everyone else first. When you do...

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Learn how self-care will improve your well being. It's easy and fun.

Learn How To Make Self-Care Easy For The New Year

By Lianne Avila | December 16, 2019

Many people have New Year’s resolutions. But, by the end of January most people haven’t achieved them and often give up on them. Instead of setting a New Year’s resolution. Look at setting goals for the New Year. This means you don’t give up after one month. They continue throughout the New Year. Most of the time, people set goals around work or making more money. They often forget about themselves, and self-care. “I don’t have time for self-care.” I hear that a lot. When you don’t set aside time for yourself, you will eventually burn out. This means you...

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Learn how a self-care plan works better, when you practice it with your partner.

5 Ways Self-Care Can Improve Your Relationship

By Lianne Avila | November 10, 2019

It’s easy in our fast paced society to forget about your own self-care. You are busy taking care of everybody else. You have a job and deadlines to meet. This doesn’t leave much time for your own self-care plan. Self-care doesn’t have to be difficult. I have found a lot of people feel guilty when they think of self-care. This can come from an old thought pattern. It’s time to throw out that old thought pattern, and replace it with a new one. Learn how self-care can improve your relationship. I talk about self-care a lot in my practice. When...

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10 Ways To Take Better Care Of Yourself While You Are Single

By Lianne Avila | October 8, 2019

When you think of self care, you may think of getting a massage or a mani/pedi. That is alright, there is nothing wrong with getting those things. But, what self care means is taking care of your mind, body and soul. Learning to take time out when you need it, is the core of self care. In today’s world everyone is busy. You are driven to work more and do more. If you keep up at this pace, you will end up feeling depleted and empty inside. Take better care of yourself, now. Unfortunately, practicing self care isn’t always easy....

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Learn how to take care of yourself, and not feel guilty about it.

Learn How To Take Care Of Yourself When You Are Depressed

By Lianne Avila | August 14, 2019

It can happen to anyone. You hear about it all the time. Unfortunately, depression is on the rise. If you suffer from depression, you aren’t alone. Like many people you’re calendar is probably packed, and you don’t feel like you can set aside time for yourself. You need to take care of the kids, clean the house, cook dinner, finish that last minute project at work and so on. When will it end? Is what you’re thinking. This doesn’t give your mind a chance to rest. After a while, you begin to feel down. You may feel like you aren’t...

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Learn how self-care is the key to a happier relationship.

11 Self-Care Tips For A Happier Relationship

By Lianne Avila | July 16, 2019

At the beginning of a relationship, everything is great. You can’t wait to see your partner at the end of the day. But, after a while things change. You may be working longer hours, after that promotion. You bought a new house. You have a couple of children that need your attention. Somehow, you put everyone else first in your life. This leaves you last on the list. If you continue to do this, it will come out in your relationship. You will begin to feel distant from your partner. This can cause resentment. You don’t feel like you are...

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